Psychotherapy and Counselling registered and BACP accredited

    You deserve to feel
    understood

    A warm, safe space where you can explore who you are, where you've been, and where you want to go. No judgement, no pressure, just genuine human connection.

    Yelda Gulay, Psychotherapeutic Counsellor

    About Yelda

    I bring lived experience, real empathy, and a deeply personal understanding of what it means to feel unheard.

    My path to counselling wasn't a straight line. After years in banking and finance, a period of deep personal change in my early 40s became a turning point. That lived experience, not just textbook knowledge, is what I bring into every session. I know what it feels like to start over, to question everything, and to come through the other side stronger.

    I'm naturally tuned in to the complexities of identity, belonging, and the pressures many of us carry without even realising it. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, grief, a big life change, or just feeling stuck, I offer a warm, down-to-earth space where you can be fully yourself.

    Warm therapy room with soft natural light

    Integrative Approach

    Integrative means I don't follow a single method. Instead, I draw from various types of approaches with the presence of Person-Centred therapy at the forefront. I may also draw from Gestalt techniques with an insight of Relational theory to understand patterns and relationships.

    Welcoming doorway with natural light

    Face to Face & Online

    In-person sessions in Barkingside and Chigwell, Essex, or online from the comfort of your own space.

    Connection and warmth

    LGBTQIA+ Affirming

    I welcome diversity of all kinds. My pronouns are she/her.

    Who I Support

    When life feels heavy, you don't have to carry it alone

    I support individuals going through life transitions, identity questions, anxiety, and the emotional weight that builds when we try to hold everything together on our own.

    Life Transitions

    Navigating major changes, whether it's a career shift, relationship breakdown, becoming a parent, or simply feeling lost in a new chapter.

    Identity & Belonging

    Exploring who you are, where you fit, and what matters to you, especially when expectations from family, culture, or society feel heavy.

    Anxiety & Overwhelm

    Finding calm and clarity when life feels relentless, and learning to manage the stress that builds up over time.

    Emotional Resilience

    Building strength and self-compassion in the face of grief, loss, burnout, and the everyday challenges that can feel anything but ordinary.

    What you can expect from our work together

    Warm & Compassionate
    Safe & Confidential
    Truly Listened To
    Non-Judgmental Space
    Empathic Support
    Personal Growth
    Inclusive & Affirming
    Flexible Availability

    My Approach

    How I work

    My approach is integrative, which means I draw from various types of approaches with the presence of Person-Centred therapy at the forefront. I may also draw from Gestalt techniques with an insight of Relational theory to understand patterns and relationships.

    Together, we create a space that feels safe enough to explore what matters most to you.

    Person-Centred at Heart

    You set the pace. There's no set agenda or homework. Each session is led by you, with my gentle support and presence.

    Attuned to You

    I hold a deep appreciation for the complexity of identity, background, and lived experience. I understand that your story shapes how you see the world.

    Relationships & Family

    I understand the challenges that relationships can have, whether new or long-term. I will aim to gently reconnect you with yourself and empower you, improving your ability to deal with life's demands. I also offer support around challenges that arise with navigating parenting.

    Warm & Grounded

    No clinical jargon, no pressure. Just a genuine, down-to-earth space where you can be fully yourself.

    Client Experiences

    What clients say

    Yelda creates such a warm and safe space. For the first time, I felt truly heard and understood. She helped me see patterns I hadn't noticed before, and I'm now able to handle things that once felt overwhelming.

    SFemaleAge 18

    Sessions

    Face-to-face or virtual

    50 minutes

    From £65 per session

    I also offer longer sessions, please contact to discuss further

    I work with clients accessing therapy through their AXA Health insurance, subject to their individual policy coverage and authorisation.

    Common Questions

    Frequently asked questions

    Get in Touch

    Ready to take the first step? Let's have a chat.

    You can call, text or email me in the first instance. We'll then arrange a free 15-minute phone consultation.

    WhatsApp

    07949 193602

    Email

    therapywithyelda@gmail.com

    Location

    Barkingside / Chigwell, Essex

    Reach Out

    I'd love to hear
    from you

    Whether you have questions about therapy, want to know more about my approach, or are ready to book your free 15-minute consultation, please get in touch. There's no pressure, just a conversation.

    Or contact me directly at therapywithyelda@gmail.com